If you’re the father of a child between the ages of six and thirteen, you probably wrestle with the issue of discipline. How do you “install” an internal control system in your child that allows her to practice self-discipline but that doesn’t crush her spirit? How do you get your son to stop himself before he does things that are hurtful or illegal but also allow him to release a certain amount of wild energy? How do you help your daughter navigate between mastery and inferiority, the tension-producing poles of this age group?

Dr. Poulter's book Father Your Son: How to Become the Father You've Always Wanted to Be answers many of these questions. Although it does not specifically address fathers of daughters, most of the principles are applicable to boys and girls. Every father, whether he has a son or a daughter, will appreciate the wealth of wisdom and insight contained in this book.

Disciplining children is an emotionally loaded issue that can call up negative associations relating to your own childhood experiences. If you feel that you would benefit from counseling in this area, Dr. Stephan Poulter offers sessions in person or via telephone. He also offers a keynote presentation/workshop entitled Fathers and Discipline: The Art of Raising Civilized Kids. Click here for more information.