Dr.
Stephan B. Poulter is a licensed clinical psychologist with
a private practice in West Los Angeles, California. He has worked
in various settings with more than 2,200 fathers and sons in
the last twenty-three years.
Before he became a psychologist, he attended
theological seminary as well as serving as a police officer
with the city of Glendale, California. While attending graduate
school and working full-time as a police officer, his law
enforcement specialty was working with “at risk”
juveniles, primarily young (twelve- to eighteen-year-olds)
male criminal offenders, in programs designed to redirect
their anger and salvage their future. This work sparked his
realization that America is facing an epidemic of fatherless
boys and rage, pain, and violence are the results. It motivated
Dr. Poulter to give up the ministry and pursue a doctorate
in clinical psychology with an emphasis on adolescent male
development.
Dr. Poulter, himself the son of an emotionally
distant father, has been interested in the relationship between
fathers and sons for more than twenty years. During college
he worked as a youth counselor and a camp director during
the summers with adolescent boys. After completing his doctoral
dissertation, which was entitled “Misdiagnosis of Acting
out Adolescents,” he ran a United Way counseling agency
and oversaw school interventions for “at risk”
students within the Los Angeles Unified School District. He
has worked with a wide range of fathers and sons in all socioeconomic
levels from the poorest to the wealthiest Hollywood celebrities.
The issues are all the same: father and son relationships.
In 1998 he co-authored Mending the Broken
Bough: Restoring the Promise of the Mother and Daughter Relationship
(Berkley Books) with Dr. Barbara Zax. In promoting the book
around the country, he quickly discovered that “as much
as I knew about the relationships between girls and their
mothers, women preferred to hear about these issues strictly
from another woman, not a man. It was then that I realized
what I really needed to write about was something that hits
much closer to home, and which has so crucially shaped my
own life: becoming the kind of father to your son that you
never had yourself, but always wanted and hoped for.”
It was this realization that eventually led to the writing
of his book Father Your Son: How to
Become the Father You've Always Wanted to Be.
In addition to his current practice,
Dr. Poulter appears regularly on radio talk shows and news
programs. He holds public speaking
engagements and workshops that creatively
address various aspects of the father/child relationship.
The father of a boy and a girl, Dr. Stephan Poulter is passionate
about the issue of fathers’ needing to be active, present,
and involved with their children—and that passion is
reflected in every aspect of his career.
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